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Dating Fuckin Sucks

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Dating fucking sucks.
I'm not going to sugarcoat it for you. Dating in this day and age, surrounded by social media, dating apps, texting, location tracking, and pretty much all the technology you can think of FUCKING SUCKS!!! Now add in the fact that we live in an over-sexualized hook-up culture and holy shit, you have yourself what I would call an absolute shit show.

The thing is, for a long time, I have tried to hide from my experiences. I have this tendency to put bad memories or negative emotions into little boxes in my mind. I pack them up and put them away, pretending they never happened because it is easier to just ignore them instead of actually dealing with them. Well with my last breakup, let's just say those shelves in the back of my mind broke. The boxes got too fuckin heavy and shit just came flying out. You know those park cans of nuts or whatever they are that when you open them a bunch of things come popping out at you? That's what this felt like. It was like all those memories I was too embarrassed about just came right up.

And you know what, most of them actually made me laugh. The fact that for years I have put up with some of the craziest dating experiences… not even just put up with but actually thought that some of these experiences were normal or worse ROMANTIC blows my god damn mind. I'm sorry but the day that you find yourself sitting next to a guy who is literally swiping through a dating app as he is on his date with you and you find that normal is the day you and I need to have a serious chat because god damn girl. When did our self-esteem get that low that we thought that was actually acceptable?

So that brings me to this blog. I want to share the good and the bad. I have had so many amazing, romantic moments but I have also had so many heartbreaking downfalls. Yes, some of the things I’m doing to share are embarrassing. Not just for the other person but also for me. There are plenty of moments that I am not proud of and plenty of actions I wish I could take nack. But at the end of the day, they shaped me into who I am today so in reality. I'm weirdly thankful for them. So if me opening up and sharing some of these crazy stories with you helps even just one person, I'll be happy. Who knows, maybe ill make you realize just how toxic that relationship is. Or maybe I'll give you an idea of something that you are missing in your love life. Or hell, maybe ill just give you a good laugh. Without further ado…

Welcome to my dating life. Welcome to all the good, the bad, the nitty-gritty, the emotional, the toxic, the fuck boy-filled insanity!
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